Self-Control: The Fruit of a Spirit-Filled Life

Self-control is one of the most misunderstood fruits of the Spirit. It sounds like something we produce through sheer effort — but Scripture tells a very different story. In this message, Pastor Tom VanAntwerp explores the tension Paul exposes in Romans 7, the paradox of enkrateia (inner strength), and the cultural swing between self-indulgence and extreme self-discipline. Through biblical insight, spiritual formation wisdom, and memorable images (including Odysseus, the Sirens, and a better song), Pastor Tom shows us: Self-control isn’t willpower. Self-control comes from giving the Spirit control. This Cultivate series finale invites us to open more of our inner lives to God’s Spirit — the One who rearranges our desires, grows all the fruit together, and leads us into a life with God.